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d1sTuRbIa
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Posted - 2009.07.20 20:27:00 -
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ok before i start this is not a troll, and i'm not sure why i am posting it on here but maybe it is because i will hopefully recieve a great deal of different ideas etc from many different people.A little background on me is that i'm 19 and i would go through hell for this girl.
ok so recently about 2 weeks ago my gf of about 7 months left me (she lives around 2 hours away from me by car), the main reasons were because i was obssessive and there were arguements between us a lot because of my family problems which include domestic violence.
i found myself shocked when she left me and i have just been suffering about it all(losing sleep, constantly thinking of it, looking a wreck etc etc) and everything i said to try and get back with her she would ignore and it was like talking to a brick wall. I then found out that a few days ago she has started to see another guy. this ofc shocked me beyond belief and i went down there with flowers and a letter, which ofc didnt work and the reply aws but i' seeing someone else so i cant go back.
a little background on the guy is that he is from her area and goes to the same college. so she can see him more often then me. I have been apart from her before for a few months and i tried everything to get over her and it simply did not work and she means so much to me.
does anyone have any idea how the hell i get her back?
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Rawr Cristina
Caldari Liberi Fatalius Exalted.
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Posted - 2009.07.20 20:30:00 -
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imo you're trying too hard
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Kurfin
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Posted - 2009.07.20 20:32:00 -
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Sounds like a lost cause, sorry.
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goodby4u
Valor Inc.
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Posted - 2009.07.20 20:32:00 -
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Unfortunately there is no fix for her thinking you are being obsessive, because the more you try the more she dislikes you.
So while this may be hard, you must move on... And if she wishes to come back to you she knows where to find you.
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d1sTuRbIa
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Posted - 2009.07.20 20:36:00 -
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thanks guys so far, just a few suggestions of what i could try for now would be nice after all trying wouldn't hurt, just have to make sure i don't come across as obssessive
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Awesome Possum
Insert Obscure Latin Name
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Posted - 2009.07.20 20:52:00 -
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*****es ain't **** but hoes and tricks
go to some place females congregate, be an *******, pick up rebound girl, treat her like ****, have her love you forever or until you upgrade to a better model. ♥
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Xen Gin
Solar Excavations Ultd. Black Sun Alliance
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:04:00 -
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Flunitrazepam?
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Malcanis
Vanishing Point. The Initiative.
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:09:00 -
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Originally by: d1sTuRbIa thanks guys so far, just a few suggestions of what i could try for now would be nice after all trying wouldn't hurt, just have to make sure i don't come across as obssessive
The best way to engage her interest is to not call her and get another girlfriend.
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Blane Xero
Amarr The Firestorm Cartel
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:09:00 -
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If you have a "Memory box" or kin, including photos, then burn it and them. Or at least trash them.
Cry river, build bridge, get over it and then burn it for good measure. Thats my advice on the matter. _____________________________________ Haruhiist since December 2008
Originally by: CCP Fallout :facepalm:
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THE L0CK
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:30:00 -
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Take up heavy drinking and maybe ******* for a bit. Once you hit rehab and come out you'll have a brighter look in life and be able to start fresh.
Taking my advice is may not be healthy or wise. Please consult your physician before starting the binge. As always alcoholic depression is not for everybody including but not limited to pregnant women, the elderly, young children, and people with tourette syndrome.
Originally by: Whitehound
If I think, but I do not.
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Vinsurith Morteth
Minmatar Hauptman Cartel
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:33:00 -
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If she was willing to see someone else behind your back instead of being respectful then don't even bother. She's not worth it and it will only come back to bite her in the a**. Deal with your own life and find somebody worth spending time with. She's a *****.
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Whitehound
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:36:00 -
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- Call her on the phone every 5 minutes.
- Throw little rocks at her window every night and throughout the entire night.
- Play love songs on a portable music box, again, at night.
- Send her and her mother lots of flowers.
- Give her father wine, whiskey and cigars.
- Mow the lawn of her garden, wash her and her parent's cars.
- Paint her parents' house with a fresh, new colour.
- Follow every of her foot steps and carry her books at college.
- Beat up her boyfriend and every other boy she talks to.
- Run naked through a football station and shout her name.
- Find out what sport her new boy-friend plays and beat him at them, too.
- Find a dead cat and tell her your cat died, that you feel terribly sad about it and show the cat to her.
- Tell her you have become gay to make her feel guilty and so she tries to turn you around again. -- "Smoke me a kipper. I'll be back for breakfast." - Ace Rimmer |
Rawr Cristina
Caldari Liberi Fatalius Exalted.
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:37:00 -
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you shouldn't ever put your life on hold for one person
life goes on whether you're with her or not, just move on - it's not the end of the world
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:43:00 -
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Give her a free ticket to Venezuela, I hear the kidnapping business goes well there. That's the idea how to get her back, if you don't like that, then forget it.
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TimMc
Gallente Brutal Deliverance
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:52:00 -
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Totally this
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Wendat Huron
Stellar Solutions
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Posted - 2009.07.20 22:23:00 -
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Obsessive ey with a family history of domestic violence? That's a smart girl. If you care anything about her you'd let her keep running.
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Cat o'Ninetails
Rancer Defence League
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Posted - 2009.07.20 22:44:00 -
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she is probably a pirate anyway
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Louis deGuerre
Gallente Azure Horizon Federate Militia
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Posted - 2009.07.20 22:55:00 -
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Just forget it man, there'll be plenty of other girls. And there are plenty of girls who like an obsessive chap, I know --- Sol: A microwarp drive? In a battleship? Are you insane? They arenĘt built for this! Clear Skies - The Movie |
hired goon
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Posted - 2009.07.20 22:59:00 -
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According to classic Mystery Method, you must sleep with ten other women to help you get over her. -omg-
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Mr Reeth
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Posted - 2009.07.20 23:04:00 -
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Originally by: TimMc
I damn near ****!!
To the OP, you know how you have feelings, thoughts, inner pain and stuff? KEEP THEM TO YOURSELF!!! Girls don't want to deal with your ****. They want to unload their **** on you.
And remember the golden rule of dealing with women... treat a ***** like a lady and a lady like a *****.
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Iasius
Mercurialis Inc. Wildly Inappropriate.
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Posted - 2009.07.20 23:07:00 -
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Where love or hate is not in the game woman is a medicore player. Please resize image to a maximum of 400 x 120, not exceeding 24000 bytes. ~Saint |
Irida Mershkov
Gallente War is Bliss
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Posted - 2009.07.20 23:18:00 -
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Edited by: Irida Mershkov on 20/07/2009 23:18:59
Originally by: d1sTuRbIa 19 and i would go through hell for this girl.
Don't waste your time. Quite simply, isn't worth it, move on.
Alternatively, dress up in a ghillie suit and follow her reciting poetry.
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Intense Thinker
Minmatar
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Posted - 2009.07.20 23:29:00 -
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Originally by: Irida Mershkov Edited by: Irida Mershkov on 20/07/2009 23:18:59
Originally by: d1sTuRbIa 19 and i would go through hell for this girl.
Don't waste your time. Quite simply, isn't worth it, move on.
Alternatively, dress up in a ghillie suit and follow her reciting poetry.
And film it And did you know that this is in fact Surfin's Plunderbunny's forum alt? It's official! |
Cipher7
Slag Industries
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Posted - 2009.07.20 23:36:00 -
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Go sleep with 10 other women, you'll feel better I promise.
Never EVER put your life on hold least of all for a woman.
Your boat is always sailing, whether she gets on or off, it sails.
Your first priority is health. Your second priority is money. She's #589690977890769 on your priority list right below video games.
Approach women everywhere. Dress well, smell good. Practice your bedroom voice.
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Lunas Whisper
Minmatar The Centurions Eternus Imperium Alliance
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Posted - 2009.07.21 00:03:00 -
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Originally by: d1sTuRbIa ok before i start this is not a troll, and i'm not sure why i am posting it on here but maybe it is because i will hopefully recieve a great deal of different ideas etc from many different people.A little background on me is that i'm 19 and i would go through hell for this girl.
ok so recently about 2 weeks ago my gf of about 7 months left me (she lives around 2 hours away from me by car), the main reasons were because i was obssessive and there were arguements between us a lot because of my family problems which include domestic violence.
i found myself shocked when she left me and i have just been suffering about it all(losing sleep, constantly thinking of it, looking a wreck etc etc) and everything i said to try and get back with her she would ignore and it was like talking to a brick wall. I then found out that a few days ago she has started to see another guy. this ofc shocked me beyond belief and i went down there with flowers and a letter, which ofc didnt work and the reply aws but i' seeing someone else so i cant go back.
a little background on the guy is that he is from her area and goes to the same college. so she can see him more often then me. I have been apart from her before for a few months and i tried everything to get over her and it simply did not work and she means so much to me.
does anyone have any idea how the hell i get her back?
Not a darn thing you can do now.
Your key words on this she left because of your family history and you acting obsessive. ie her bullcrap quotient has been reached and she's made up her mind. Whinging at her with flowers an poetry like they do in the movies only reinforces the fact she sees you as obsessive.
So have you been obsessive and have you been leaning toward your family history? I don't need to know you do. If so, find practical conflict resolution techniques and I don't mean the ones that say express your feelings. Your a guy, you need more concrete methods then crying is ok.
Your 19, if you and her are meant to be it will happen later on. She knows yalls' ages. Go and experience life for crying out loud. Find out what you did wrong or right in this relationship and try not to do the bad things in the next one and continue the good things. In short learn and grow. But the girl has made her mind up and you can't change it, your going to have to accept her choices. No if's and or butts. United we stand, divided we fall. |
Thuranni
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Posted - 2009.07.21 00:07:00 -
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Originally by: d1sTuRbIa
the main reasons were because i was obssessive
I wonder how the hell she got that idea.
It's a lost cause. She's seeing someone else. Forget about it.
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Jin Nib
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Posted - 2009.07.21 00:15:00 -
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Just try panting in front of her and lick her face. Works for dogs.
-Jin Nib Trading on behalf of Opera Noir since: 2009.03.02 03:53:00
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The Wintersmith
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Posted - 2009.07.21 00:25:00 -
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Bottle of Whiskey and a funnel tbh.
Don't get sad, get angry
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Sniper Wolf18
Gallente A Pretty Pony Princess General Tso's Alliance
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Posted - 2009.07.21 00:46:00 -
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Put your hand on ice, run to the hospital and hope that they can reattach it, if they can, you've got your "girl" back And to finish, thank you for reading my sig -------------------------------------------------- If you are still reading i would probably hav posted by now |
rValdez5987
Amarr Imperial Guard. Soldiers of Solitude
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Posted - 2009.07.21 01:15:00 -
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Originally by: d1sTuRbIa ok before i start this is not a troll, and i'm not sure why i am posting it on here but maybe it is because i will hopefully recieve a great deal of different ideas etc from many different people.A little background on me is that i'm 19 and i would go through hell for this girl.
ok so recently about 2 weeks ago my gf of about 7 months left me (she lives around 2 hours away from me by car), the main reasons were because i was obssessive and there were arguements between us a lot because of my family problems which include domestic violence.
i found myself shocked when she left me and i have just been suffering about it all(losing sleep, constantly thinking of it, looking a wreck etc etc) and everything i said to try and get back with her she would ignore and it was like talking to a brick wall. I then found out that a few days ago she has started to see another guy. this ofc shocked me beyond belief and i went down there with flowers and a letter, which ofc didnt work and the reply aws but i' seeing someone else so i cant go back.
a little background on the guy is that he is from her area and goes to the same college. so she can see him more often then me. I have been apart from her before for a few months and i tried everything to get over her and it simply did not work and she means so much to me.
does anyone have any idea how the hell i get her back?
Forget about her. 7 months for a relationship isn't a very long time. I would sort out your own problems first then put yourself back on the market.
Man up, and get over her. Move on. |
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